The African proverb when the mother goat chews cord, her kids watch is very true of the way our father taught us his children. We grew up to find out that our father do not eat in public places. Kamagra pills As the children of the family grew up, we discovered more about his attitude to food in public places, during festivities and ceremonies. Kamagra pills It was interesting one day to find out that our father while preparing to attend a public function would include the following in his preparation:
• A meal
• A drink
• An empty bottle of drink of his choice
• A jog, and
• Bag
Our father by this arrangement ensured that he had a meal before leaving the house, even when he is going out for marriage, burial and other ceremonies and festivities that are always happening in our village especially at certain times of the year. He ensures that he has taken his fill of his palm wine or any other drink of his fancy that is available in the house. Then he ensures that he leaves the house with at least an empty bottle of drink, the empty jog and a bag holding them together.
On one occasion while preparing to attend a ceremony where a wealthy man’s daughter is being given out in a traditional marriage ceremony, he had demanded to eat his food before leaving the house. Our mother had quipped, what do you want to waste food in the house for when there would be plenty of it to eat out there today? This joking question caused no small scene as our father fired back and asked her if she thinks he behaves like those men from her village who go to public events and fight over food, meat and drink.
This intrigued us his children greatly when we began to notice these things. The more curious among us did ask from time to time. His answer as always would be that we should watch and see what is going on. As we began to mature and grow, we notice that he comes back from events with anything that is shared at the events including pieces of meat, fish, stockfish, bottles of drinks, jogs filled with palm wine, etc. We thought his actions a little bit absurd in later years. But he never changed from the habit.
As we his children grew more and matured more and were involved in the activities of the village, we noticed that a number of men fought over food, drinks and even little pieces of meat shared in public events. We also noticed that our father never left his seat during such events unless to help get things done well.
He was not always the oldest or the most dignified of all the elderly people around, but somehow, someone would break ranks and come through crowds to ensure that he got his share of whatever that is being shared.
Just recently, there was an event where many people supposedly well-to-do in their own right quarreled over food and drinks at an event in the city. It provided an opportunity for understanding a bit more the philosophy of our father at public events in a native village and setting where much decorum is not even expected.
The example of parents is not replaceable.